Packed with Meaning

EVA PEARL

Dau. of R. C. & G. Ellison

Died Aug. 20, 1901

Aged 1 Yr. 2Ms. & 26 Ds.

Of such is the Kingdom of Heaven

The gray marble gravestone commemorating the grave of Eva Pearl Ellison in the small rural Ellison Cemetery in Harrison County, Iowa, is loaded, a literal potpourri of symbolism. 

The monument is topped with an open book. The book, like nearly any book in the cemetery, can represent the Holy Bible. Often, however, graveyard sculptures of “recording angels” are depicted writing the names of the deceased into an open book.  The angels registered the names of the deceased into the Book of Life.  In Judaism and Christianity, the names of the righteous were recorded in the Book of Life; they were assured entry into Heaven. The Book is referenced many times in the Bible (King James Version), including Revelations, Chapter 20:

Verse 12: “And I saw the dead, small and great, stand before God: and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works.”

Verse 13: “And the sea gave up the dead which were in it; and death and hell delivered up the dead which were in them: and they were judged every man according to their works.”

Verse 14: “And death and hell were cast into the lake of fire.  This is the second death.”

Verse 15: “And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.”

On the face of the gravestone a curtain tied back with bows opens to a tableau of symbols including a dove and a sunburst, each with significant meaning.

The curtain or the veil symbolizes the exit from one realm to the entrance to another.  Here a little girl has made the passage from this life to the next–the Earthly Realm to the Heavenly Realm.

The dove, like many symbols found on gravestones, have multiple meanings. The dove is one of those.  Several references in the Bible refer to the dove as a symbol of the Holy Spirit. Matthew 3:16 reads, “And Jesus, when he was baptized, went up straightway out of the water: and, lo, the heavens were opened unto him, and he saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove, and lighting upon him.” 

In Mark 1:10 the Bible says, “And Straightway coming up out of the water, he saw the heavens opened, and the Spirit like a dove descending upon him.” Again in John 1:32, the Bible reads, “And John bare record, saying, I saw the Spirit descending from heaven like a dove, and it abode upon him.”

Along with the dove symbolizing the Holy Spirit, the dove is also closely associated with peace, often depicted with a sprig of an olive in its beak. This, too, originated in the Bible. After the waters receded in the story of Noah, the dove appears. Genesis 8:11, “And the dove came in to him in the evening; and, lo, in her mouth was an olive leaf pluckt off; so Noah knew that the waters were abated from off the earth.”   It was a sign of God’s forgiveness.

The dove, with its white color, is also a symbol of purity and innocence and for that reason it is often found the tombstones of children, as in this example.  Thus, the dove symbolizes the Holy Spirit, peace, and purity.

Again, like many symbols, there can be more than one meaning; there is a duality to the sunburst.  For instance, when looking at the symbol, it is difficult to discern if it is a rising sun or a setting sun—which leads to its dual meaning.  The rising sun represents the resurrection, rebirth, and eternal life.  In fact, many Western cemeteries were oriented to bury the deceased facing the rising sun in anticipation of the return of the Savior God Jesus.  The setting sun, however, represented death and the end of the mortal life.

A gravestone packed with meaning.

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What are the odds?

Alfred Patton

Born

Oct. 10, 1834

KILLED BY

LIGHTNING

Died

July 13, 1856

Aged 21 years

While volunteering in the Rose Hill Cemetery in Bloomington, Indiana, I came across a gravestone that was broken into two pieces and partially buried.  When I inspected the top part of the tablet, I noticed the inscription, “KILLED BY LIGHTNING.”

Nearly everyone has used the expression, “you are more likely to get hit by lightning,” to explain how rare something might be.  According to the Centers for Disease Control, your odds of being struck in any given year are less than one in 1.6 million.  However, your lifetime risk is only about one in 20,000.  Oddly enough, males are four times more likely than females to be struck. 

Unfortunately, Alfred Patton didn’t beat the odds.

According to the experts, July and August are peak months for lightning strikes—and two out of three happen between noon and 6 pm.  Two-thirds of all deaths are of people engaging in leisure activities like fishing, boating, and soccer.   

So be careful out there!

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Beyond the flight of time

HOMER DUANE

Son of

J. & C. CORSAW

BORN

… 1846

IN THE

25th Year of His Age

The Rose Hill Cemetery in Bloomington, Indiana, is conducting a survey of the oldest section of the cemetery—gravestone by gravestone.  Volunteers log into a database and record names and dates on the markers, and after fixing a GPS location, the gravestone is photographed and uploaded into the database.  Then each marker is assessed for the sturdiness of the structure and the condition of the surface for future repairs and cleaning.

As one of the volunteers I have spent hours working on the survey.  Today I came across one of the gravestones that had been broken into two pieces.  Unfortunately, one of the breaks cuts through the deceased’s death date.  In addition, the epitaph is very eroded and was a challenge trying to figure out the lines of the epitaph.  I spent quite some time trying to figure out the faded poetry—and then I had it:

Beyond the flight of time,

Beyond the reign of death,

There surely is some blessed clime,

Where life is not a breath

After some online searching, I discovered (thank goodness for the Internet) that the four lines that form Homer Duane Corsaw’s epitaph are four lines from the second stanza of the poem, “Friend after friend departs.” The poem was written by the Scottish poet and hymnwriter James Montgomery and was first published in 1867.  Those four lines form an appropriate epitaph as they offer a reflection of the loss of a friend and the grief that follows.  The full poem expands on that sentiment of the loss of a friend and the hope of reunion. 

Friend after friend departs:

Who hath not lost a friend?

There is no union here of hearts,

That finds not here an end:

Were this frail world our only rest,

Living or dying, none were blest.

Beyond the flight of time,

Beyond the reign of death,

There surely is some blessed clime,

Where life is not a breath,

Nor life’s affections, transient fire,

Whose sparks fly upward to expire.

There is a world above,

Where parting is unknown;

A whole eternity of love

Formed for the good alone;

And faith beholds the dying here

Translated to that glorious sphere.

Thus star by star declines,

Till all are passed away;

As morning high and higher shines

To pure and perfect day;

Nor sink those stars in empty night,

But hide themselves in heaven’s own light.

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MYTH and MARKETING

The dusty, rock-laden graveyard in Tombstone, Arizona, was originally called the Tombstone Cemetery—not very creative but accurate and to the point.  It was only “active” for five years from 1879 to 1884 and contains about 270 burials. When the Tombstone Cemetery closed burials moved to the newly opened cemetery on Allen Street.

After decades of neglect, Arlington Gardiner, a town booster and secretary of the Tombstone Commercial Club, coaxed a Boy Scout troop to clean up the city cemetery in 1923.  Every attempt was made to identify as many graves as possible, as many of the markers were made of wood and in a sorry state of decay.  Relatives were contacted and city officials poured over cemetery records to accurately mark the graves of the people buried inside the cemetery.

Though not accurate, the cemetery had gained a reputation over the years as a place where only cowboys, villains, gamblers, and gunslingers were buried, in part because the three men killed in the shootout at the OK Corral are buried there as well as several men who were hanged back of the courthouse.  But that reputation helped the cemetery get a “re-boot” of sorts.  The cemetery was renamed Boothill, likely after the infamous Dodge City cemetery of the same name, (spelled Boot Hill) after Tombstone’s cemetery was popularized in an article in the Saturday Evening Post by writer Frederick Beckdolt in 1919. 

Gradually a tourist trade of sorts began to develop.  The notoriety in magazine articles and dime novels helped gin up interest in not only Tombstone but Boothill.  This is where myth and marketing combine.  Several markers carry epitaphs that are clever and helped build up the reputation of the Old West gunslingers with quick trigger fingers:

HERE LIES

Lester Moore

FOUR SLUGS

FROM A 44

NO LES

NO MORE

Moore, as the claim goes, worked as a Wells Fargo Station Agent in the tiny town of Naco, Arizona, a little more than 30 miles from Tombstone sitting directly on the U. S.—Mexico border.  A dustup occurred when a dissatisfied customer, Hank Dustan, picked up a package.  Unfortunately, the packaged arrived at the Wells Fargo Station mangled.  Dustan was disgusted by the state of his package and complained loudly.  The argument with Moore turned heated very quickly and both men reached for their guns and shots rang out.  When the smoke cleared Dustan was killed with a shot to his chest and Moore was mortally wounded, too.  Moore’s body was taken to Tombstone for burial at the Boot Hill Cemetery where some wag painted his grave marker with what is perhaps the most famous epitaph in the Old West.  The gunslinger’s grave marker “poetry” reads: “HERE LIES Lester Moore, FOUR SLUGS FROM A 44, NO LES, NO MORE.”

HERE

LIES

GEORGE

JOHNSON

HANGED BY

MISTAKE

1882

HE WAS RIGHT

WE WAS WRONG

BUT WE STRUNG HIM UP

NOW HE’S GONE

Then there is the story of George Johnson who reportedly purchased a horse that had been stolen.  When Johnson was found with the horse he was accused of horse theft, a crime punishable by hanging in the Old West.  He was hanged despite making his case that he had not stolen the horse but instead had purchased it.  According the the epitaph, mob rule won out. This epitaph is more myth and marketing than true.  There is no record of a George Johnson being hanged in Tombstone in the 1880s. 

But the myth mixed with a little frontier poetry was great marketing and the tourists still come.

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Death Intrudes

EVA MAUD

Dau. of

N. D. & E. H. BARNES.

BORN Aug. 12, 1878.

DIED Sept. 7, 1898.

You are not dead to us,

But as a bright star unseen.

We hold that you are ever near,

Though death intrudes between.

In the small country Ellison Cemetery in rural Harrison County, Iowa, is the gray marble gravestone of Eva Maud Barnes, who died just after her 20th birthday. 

Her epitaph describes Eva as a “bright unseen star.”  That star is repeated as a symbol on the gravestone just above the barely visible incised design of open gates. An angel can also be seen reaching upward toward the Heavens between the open gates. 

The gates here represent a passageway from one realm to the next.  The gates are the portal for saved souls to make their passage from the Earthly realm to the Heavenly realm upon Christ’s return.

The drapery on top of the gravestone represents a shroud symbolizing death and sorrow. The drapery can also be a motif that again represents the veil that separates the Earth and Heaven.  

The last line of the epitaph has two words that are a constant fear for all—”death intrudes.”

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The Stag

BEN. T. CLARK

SEPT. 15. 1867

OCT. 28. 1935

MY FAULTS WRITE THEM UPON

THE SANDS OF THE SEA;

MY GOOD DEEDS WRITE UPON

THE TABLET OF THY MEMORY.

ERECTUM AD MEMORIAM ME AM.

Alongside Alternate Route 58 in Abingdon, Virginia, is the historic Sinking Spring Cemetery established in the last quarter of the 18th Century.  Buried within the gates of the cemetery is the discolored marble gravestone of Benjamin Thomas “Ben” Clark.

In the top third of the gravestone is a bas-relief of a stag standing proud. The deer can have several different symbolic meanings in the cemetery.  The deer sheds it antlers, a symbol of the decay of the physical body—yet, the antlers regrow representing the eternal nature of the soul.  Those same antlers can also represent a “crown” signifying victory over death.

On closer look, the stag stands on an angled stone mimicking The Benevolent Protective Order of Elks statues that can be found in many cemeteries throughout the United States.  The B. P. O. E. is one of the many fraternal organizations in the United States, was originally a drinking club called the Jolly Corks founded in 1866 by a group of actors, who evidently liked to drink.  The club members made the fateful decision to change their organization’s name and increase their mission from frolic to public service. 

This gravestone carving may represent a crown and victory over death or more likely Bejamin Clark’s membership in the Elks.  You decide.

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A Tribute to My Father

Today is Father’s Day—a Hallmark Card holiday like someone’s birthday, Valentine’s Day, or Mother’s Day.  But unlike Mother’s Day, Father’s Day is undoubtedly a second-rate holiday especially when compared to Mother’s Day. 

Consider that on May 8, 1914 after decades of lobbying, Congress passed a law designating the second Sunday in May as Mother’s Day. The next day, President Woodrow Wilson issued a proclamation declaring the first official Mother’s Day. 

A similar lobbying effort from card companies, retailers, and individuals took place for recognizing a Father’s Day holiday on the third day in June but it wasn’t until 1966 that President Lyndon Johnson issued a proclamation recognizing Father’s Day. Then in 1972, President Richard Nixon signed a law designating it as a national observance—a full 58 years after Mother’s Day was made official. Second rate.

Also consider children’s calling habits.  A few decades ago when Ma Bell single-handedly managed the US phone system and landlines ruled the day, AT&T reported that nearly 20 million more calls were made on Mother’s Day than on Father’s Day.  Father’s Day, however, had the distinction of being the biggest day for COLLECT phone calls!  Second rate.

As it happens, my father was born on this very day 103 years ago.  He was a bit of a rascal but a wonderful father—flaws and all.  Unfortunately, he died 46 years ago.  To bring and keep his stories alive, I wrote a book about his life titled We Buried Dad In a Leisure Suit

A Goodreads review describes the book this way: “In the wonderful book, We Buried Dad In a Leisure Suit, author Douglas Rife does something truly remarkable. Rife shares his family history stories with readers in a way that engages them, invites them in, and makes them feel as though they really know the people in his family. In a unique way, you feel you have become part of his family.

Rife is a master storyteller who reveals to us the lives of his family and ancestors, including their foibles, triumphs, and downfalls. His characterizations of the people in the story bring them to life, and I found myself saying, “Hey, I had an aunt just like that,” or “My dad did something like that.” Whether he was talking about divorce, death, or dementia in the family, Rife writes about these human tales with wit, humor, and seriousness when needed, and always with sensitivity.

The stories are set against the backdrop of Douglas, who, while at college, learns of his father’s death and then drives back to Logan, Iowa (yes, it is a real place) with his brother. During the road trip, he recalls stories he has heard throughout his life. … I immediately became immersed in Douglas’ tales.

Beyond the personal stories, there is much to learn from this read about rural Iowa and small towns. The history of these places is an important part of our cultural heritage, and keeping the stories alive is an important contribution to our collective memory. Rife has made a great contribution to Iowa history.

Ultimately, I suspect that Rife was writing this book as a eulogy for his father. Even in the grief and pain of loss, he can spin a yarn, tell a funny story, and at the same time, deal with his own loss, coming to terms with it. It is a remarkable piece of storytelling.”

I wanted to honor my father today, on Father’s Day and his birthday, and every day. He was first rate unlike the holiday.

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A Small Piece of Granite

JOSEPH A. BRUNER

MAR. 12, 1894

MAY 8, 1972

The Clear Creek Cemetery is the burial place of Joseph August Bruner.  His gravestone is a non-descript red granite block that in no way indicates the monumental piece of granite he worked on for part of his stone carving career.

Joseph August Bruner, a French-born stone carver, met Gutzon Borglum in 1938 in Marietta, Ohio.  Borglum invited Bruner to come to South Dakota to help carve a mountain. Mr. Borglum was working on the monumental Mount Rushmore project which included four 60-foot tall, sculptured heads of the American presidents—George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, Theodore Roosevelt, and Abraham Lincoln.  Bruner accepted the offer and became one of the more than 400 carvers who worked on Mount Rushmore until its completion in 1941.  Not only did each of the men who worked on the mountain have to be a skilled carver but they did so dangling from ropes on the side of the rock face to do the job—carver meets acrobat!

Most often, the gravestone marking a person’s grave does not give anything away about the person’s past exploits, careers, or loves, but maybe, just maybe, his small piece of granite that makes up Bruner’s gravestone is a nod to his work on a granite mountain side that pays tribute to America’s history.

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A Gunslinger’s Grave Marker Poetry

HERE LIES

Lester Moore

FOUR SLUGS

FROM A 44

NO LES

NO MORE

The barren town of Tombstone, Arizona, was a rough and tumble outpost.  The city witnessed the notorious shootout at O.K. Corral and countless other killings that have become infamous.  The colorful epitaphs in the Boot Hill Cemetery are a testament to murders and shootings that took place on the streets and in the saloons of Tombstone.  The sheer number of people who were described as killed on their markers in the Boot Hill Cemetery can leave the passersby stunned. 

Lester Moore worked as a Wells Fargo Station Agent in the tiny town of Naco, Arizona, a little more than 30 miles from Tombstone sitting directly on the U. S.—Mexico border.  A dustup occurred when a dissatisfied customer, Hank Dustan, picked up a package.  Unfortunately, the packaged arrived at the Wells Fargo Station mangled.  Dustan was disgusted by the state of his package and complained loudly.  The argument with Moore turned heated very quickly and both men reached for their guns and shots rang out.  When the smoke cleared Dustan was killed with a shot to his chest and Moore was mortally wounded, too.  Moore’s body was taken to Tombstone for burial at the Boot Hill Cemetery where some wag painted his grave marker with what is perhaps the most famous epitaph in the Old West.  The grave marker reads: “HERE LIES Lester Moore, FOUR SLUGS FROM A 44, NO LES, NO MORE.”

No one knows where Dustan was laid to rest.

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Old West Mystery

Wm.

Clayborne

1882

SHOT BY

FRANK LESLIE

Buried beneath a wooden and hand painted grave marker in the dry, dusty, and famed Boot Hill Cemetery in a rocky grave is William Floyd “Billy” Claiborne/ Clayborne and a mystery. 

Clayborne was born on October 21, 1860, in Yazoo County, Mississippi, and was known to be a miner, outlaw, gunfighter, and cowhand. However, he is largely remembered for surviving what was arguably the most famous shoot out in the Old West—the legendary Gunfight at the O. K. Corral in the desolate hamlet of Tombstone, Arizona, on October 26, 1881.  Clayborne did not survive the shootout by heroics and superior gunplay but by ducking into the C. S. Fly’s Boarding House and Photography Studio to hide out.  His Cochise County Cowboy companions, Billy Clanton and the McLaury brothers, however, were not so lucky and were killed in the melee against the Earp brothers and Doc Holliday. 

A little more than a year after the infamous shootout, Clayborne publicly accused gunslinger Frank “Buskskin” Leslie of killing his friend Johnny Ringo, whose death had remained a mystery and remained unsolved.  On November 14, 1882, just outside the Oriental Saloon, a drunk Clayborne confronted Leslie.  Clayborne shot the first volley from his rifle but missed.  Leslie quickly returned fire and struck Clayborne directly in the chest.  Clayborne’s last words allegedly were “Don’t shoot me any more, I’m killed.” Clayborne survived six hours after the incident and was laid to rest in the town’s Boot Hill Cemetery in Tombstone.

There are some who say there is not proof beyond a reasonable doubt that the man buried under that wooden marker is William “Billy” Clayborne of Yazoo.  There is a marriage record that a William Floyd Claiborne married Hattie Barnton on January 27, 1887, in Yazoo County, Mississippi, and that that same Claiborne appeared on the 1910 Census as a widower with his children.

Leslie did shoot and kill a man named “Billy”, but was it William Floyd “Billy” Clayborne?  Another mystery of the Old West not solved to everyone’s satisfaction.

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