Our furry family members

Hartsdale Canine Cemetery, Hartsdale, New York

Hartsdale Canine Cemetery, Hartsdale, New York


Mt. Auburn Cemetery, Cambridge, Massachusetts

Mt. Auburn Cemetery, Cambridge, Massachusetts

When I write about our furry family members, I am not referring to those males in the family with hair on their backs, but instead, our little four-legged family members—our dogs and cats. As it turns out, with the exception of how much room is between gravestones, those who bury their pets choose much the same symbolism and gravestone choices as we do with our two-legged family members.

In the example above, the empty bassinet, represents the emptiness that is felt by the loss of the dogs buried underneath. It is much like the empty bassinet gravestone that marks the intricately-carved white marble gravestone of Mary Wigglesworth, who died just shy of her first birthday, her inscription on the pillow.  The symbolism is obvious.  The marker is clearly for a child but also represents the emptiness and sadness from the loss.


Many gravestones also display a photo on the face of the gravestone. That is common in the Hartsdale Canine Cemetery in Hartsdale, New York, too.  The gravestone above displays a photo of a cat named, the Fifth Daisy, while the gravestone below displays the photo of 34-year old Anna Maddalena.

Mt. Olivet, Red Bank, New Jersey

Mt. Olivet, Red Bank, New Jersey


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Puppy Love

Our puppy, Doodle

Our puppy, Doodle

Dogs have long been considered man’s best friend! In fact, way back in 1821, the New York Literary Journal ran a poem that extolled just that. According to the latest pet ownership statistics from 2012, 36.5% of American households (43,346,000) own an average of 1.6 dogs. That adds up to a whopping 69,926,000 dogs living with families in the United States. (Incidentally, fewer households own cats, but each of those households own more—2.1 per household for a total of 74,059,000 cats.)  Given that love for our dogs, it is no wonder that some dog owners want to bury their pets.

In 1896, Veterinarian Dr. Samuel Johnson offered to let his friend bury his beloved dog in his apple orchard. Today more than 70,000 pets are buried in what is now the Hartsdale Canine Cemetery, Hartsdale, New York, which became the first and oldest pet cemetery in the United States and perhaps the world.


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It is just a “fair view”

Fair View Cemetery, Red Bank, New Jersey

Fair View Cemetery, Red Bank, New Jersey

The biggest cemetery in Red Bank, New Jersey, is named Fair View which strikes me as funny. The name chosen is damning by faint praise—the view isn’t bad, it isn’t great, it is just “fair”. But what’s in a name? The cemetery is beautiful, set in a neighborhood on gently rolling hills and landscaped in the tradition of some of the first rural cemeteries.

At any rate, Fair View Cemetery has several mausoleums within its gates, including the the Proal Family Mausoleum. The mausoleum is fairly modest, built in a rustic rough-hewn style. The exceptional feature of the crypt is the stained glass window on the back wall.   Adorning the window in shimmering blues, purples, greens, and cocoa is a glass angel depicted holding a crown, as if it is going to be offered to a recently arrived soul to Heaven.


The crown is a symbol of glory and reward and victory over death.  The reward comes after life and the hard-fought battle on Earth against the wages of sin and the temptations of the flesh.  The reward awaits in Heaven where the victor will receive a crown of victory. The crown also represents the sovereign authority of the Lord.


In the angels other hand, the angel holds a palm leaf. This symbol is most closely associated with Easter, and Jesus’ spiritual victory over death. The palm frond is also a symbol of eternal peace.

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Ouroboros Orphis

Glendale Cemetery, Akron, Ohio

Glendale Cemetery, Akron, Ohio

On the massive bronze doors of the Bertram Work Neo-Classical Mausoleum in the Glendale Cemetery, at Akron, Ohio, are several repeating images, one of which is the Ouroboros. The Ouroboros is an ancient symbol depicting a snake eating its tail. The word, Ouroboros, is Greek—oura meaning tail; vora meaning eating, and ophis meaning serpent or snake. In ancient Egypt, the Ouroboros represented the daily passage of the sun.  The snake eating its tail in cemetery symbolism represents the cycle of life—birth and death—and eternity.


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Stylized Tulips


Corneliea Dau

Of John & Mary

Dixon died April

Ye 10 1788 aged

2 Year 6 Months

& 23 Days

Tulips have long been a symbol found in the graveyard, including on the gravestone of two and a half year old, Corneleia Dixon, found in the First Presbyterian Church Cemetery at Trenton, New Jersey. The tulips on this gravestone are highly stylized, yet still recognizable.  Tulips are a symbol of love and passion but since this symbol is on a child’s gravestone it most likely represents eternal life.


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Tip Toe through the Tulips

Sleepy Hollow Cemetery, Concord, Massachusetts

Sleepy Hollow Cemetery, Concord, Massachusetts


Wife of Ralph Waldo Emerson

Daughter of Charles & Lucy (Cotton) Jackson.

Born September 20th 1802, close by

Plymouth Rock as she loved to remember.

Died November 13th 1892 in Concord.

In 1968, in a quivering falsetto, singer musician Tiny Tim released a song titled, “Tip Toe through the Tulips”. Accompanied by his ukulele, the unlikely song by the quirky singer became a hit. Tiny Tim appeared on such shows as Rowan and Martin’s Laugh In and the Tonight Show with Johnny Carson.

The song was written by Al Dubin (lyrics) and Joe Burke (music) in 1929 and had its first burst of popularity that year holding the number one spot on the charts for ten weeks. The song is a plea to meet in a garden of tulips to seal away for a kiss in the moonlight.

Whether the original songwriters or Tiny Tim knew the symbolism of the tulip or not is unclear. But in the Victorian language of flowers and in funerary symbolism, the tulip represents love and passion. What sets this flower apart from the rose as a symbol of love is that it is thornless. It is also unusual in that, after the tender flower is cut, it continues to grow. Because of this, it is often associated with eternal life.

Lakewood Cemetery Mausoleum, Minneapolis, Minnesota

Lakewood Cemetery Mausoleum, Minneapolis, Minnesota

Tiny Tim (Herbert Khaury) died in Minneapolis after a heart attack while giving a performance to a woman’s club. He is buried in the Lakewood Cemetery Mausoleum, Minneapolis, Minnesota, in a plain white-marble crypt. Even the lettering on the face of his crypt belies the flamboyant and eccentric musician who amused and entertained audiences.




1932 1996


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The Last Ramone

The sculpture of Johnny Ramones on top of his memorial in the Hollywood Memorial Park.

The sculpture of Johnny Ramones on top of his memorial in the Hollywood Memorial Park.

 Joey Ramone/Jeffrey Ross Hyman (May 19, 1951 – April 15, 2001) was the lead vocalist of the punk rock band.   Joey died of lymphatic cancer and was buried at Hillside Cemetery in Lyndhurst, New Jersey.

 Dee Dee Ramone /Douglas Glenn Colvin (September 18, 1951 – June 5, 2002), was a songwriter and bassist for the Ramones. Dee Dee Ramone died of a drug overdose and was buried in Hollywood Memorial Park Cemetery.

 Johnny Ramone/John William Cummings (October 8, 1948 – September 15, 2004), was a guitarist and songwriter for the Ramones.  Johnny died of prostate cancer and was Hollywood Memorial Park Cemetery.

Tommy Ramone /Thomas Erdelyi (born Erdélyi Tamás (January 29, 1949 – July 11, 2014) was the drummer for the Ramones.  Tommy Ramone, 65, the last surviving member of the Ramones, died Friday, July 11, 2014. Arrangements for his funeral and the circumstances of his death have not been announced.

The Ramones’ first album debuted in 1976, and though they never had a top 40 hit, the band toured for 20 years to enthusiastic fans. Though the band was never considered a commercial success, many rockers noted the influence of their music on bands, such as, Green Day and Nirvana, and musicians, such as, Bruce Springsteen.

Dee Dee Ramone's gravestone in the Hollywood Memorial Park Cemetery.

Dee Dee Ramone’s gravestone in the Hollywood Memorial Park Cemetery.

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